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06 marzo

奥巴马演讲古文版

 

 http://www.wozuisha.com/2008/11/obama/

 

Hello,Chicago!
芝城父老,别来无恙,

If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible, who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time, who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer.
余尝闻世人有疑,不知当今美利坚凡事皆可成就耶?开国先贤之志方岿然于世耶?民主之伟力不减于昔年耶?凡存诸疑者,今夕当可释然。

It’s the answer told by lines that stretched around schools and churches in numbers this nation has never seen, by people who waited three hours and four hours, many for the first time in their lives, because they believed that this time must be different, that their voices could be that difference.
今夕之释然,皆蒙美利坚民众之协力——学塾祠庙之外,市井乡野之间,万千父老心焦似焚,苦待竟日,愿献一票之力。其中,平生未尝涉国事者,数亦不少,而今有此义举,皆因一念不衰——今夫天下,非同既往,愿发吁天之声,必成动地之势。

It’s the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Hispanic, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled. Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been just a collection of individuals or a collection of red states and blue states. We are, and always will be, the United States of America.
今夕之释然,皆仰吾国同胞之齐心——何谈贫富老幼之差、party社宗族之异,惶论发肤肌体之别、志趣爱恶之分。吾国既以“合众”为名,吾辈则更无疏离之意,红蓝二party并肩而立,数十邦州挽手相合,无分你我,共称一家,昂然于世,齐声一呼,天下乃有此释然。

It’s the answer that led those who’ve been told for so long by so many to be cynical and fearful and doubtful about what we can achieve to put their hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day.
今夕之释然,皆因愤懑者之镇静,忧惧者之勇气,犹疑者之笃定——平素世间种种,消磨其志向,溃灭其梦想,而值此风云之际,除旧更新,当仁不让,倾力而动乾坤者,更何人哉!

It’s been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this date in this election at this defining moment change has come to America.
俟之诚久,其志弥坚。幸天地明察,乃有今日,乃有此刻,乃有此一选举,乃有我亿万美利坚大好国民——吾邦之大变革,方得自兹而始也!

A little bit earlier this evening, I received an extraordinarily gracious call from Sen. McCain.
Sen. McCain fought long and hard in this campaign. And he’s fought even longer and harder for the country that he loves. He has endured sacrifices for America that most of us cannot begin to imagine. We are better off for the service rendered by this brave and selfless leader. I congratulate him; I congratulate Gov. Palin for all that they’ve achieved. And I look forward to working with them to renew this nation’s promise in the months ahead.
顷接参议员麦君凯恩电,虽未得晤,幸有一谈,其言谆谆,其意诚诚,鄙人感佩之至。选战期内,麦君劳碌几重,奔波几许,皆为国家计。诸般求索,时日良多,皆非余所能及。于国于民之惊人牺牲,亦非庸庸如吾辈者所可想见。以麦君之胆魄襟怀,能为吾邦所用,实国家之幸,万民之幸也。前途漫漫,其事未竟,余所盼瞩由衷者,唯共麦凯恩君、佩林君,及诸贤士比肩,会吾等之绵力,成吾邦之大业。

I want to thank my partner in this journey, a man who campaigned from his heart, and spoke for the men and women he grew up with on the streets of Scranton and rode with on the train home to Delaware, the vice president-elect of the United States, Joe Biden.
乔君拜登,亦吾所感铭至深者也。竞选之业,艰险不足与外人道,幸有乔君之辅佐,其诚天可鉴之。乔君其人,素言恳辞切,意笃情真,盖尝经斯兰克顿街乡邻之提命,饱聆特拉华州父老之晤教也。他日余既登总统之位,乔君必当副之。

And I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support of my best friend for the last 16 years the rock of our family, the love of my life, the nation’s next first lady Michelle Obama.
拙荆米氏,追随鄙人凡一十六年,既为爱侣,更为挚友,既为吾阖家之基石,又乃余终生之至爱。鄙人尝自忖度,倘无贤妻若此,今朝阔论高谈于此处者,不知何人矣!

Sasha and Malia I love you both more than you can imagine. And you have earned the new puppy that’s coming with us to the new White House.
小女萨沙、玛丽,余素深喜之。昔日为父尝与汝等言,此番选战若得一胜,愿购小犬一头相赠,待阖家乔迁总统府邸之日,偕汝等同进吾宅。今当胜负已出,既有一诺在前,必自践行不欺也。

And while she’s no longer with us, I know my grandmother’s watching, along with the family that made me who I am. I miss them tonight. I know that my debt to them is beyond measure.
祖母大人虽已仙逝,料必有灵在天,俯察人寰,想应颔首开颜矣。吾奥巴马氏列祖列宗,亦当如是。今日今时,此情此景,鄙人追思之心,乌鸟之情,曷其有极!唯生死陌路,仙凡有别,虽怀反哺之心,而无答报之门也!

To my sister Maya, my sister Alma, all my other brothers and sisters, thank you so much for all the support that you’ve given me. I am grateful to them.
至若玛雅、艾玛二姐妹,以及吾家诸同胞,所惠我者,亦属良多,久沐恩德,此当拜谢。

And to my campaign manager, David Plouffe, the unsung hero of this campaign, who built the best — the best political campaign, I think, in the history of the United States of America.To my chief strategist David Axelrod who’s been a partner with me every step of the way.To the best campaign team ever assembled in the history of politics you made this happen, and I am forever grateful for what you’ve sacrificed to get it done.
大卫"普劳夫君,大卫"阿克塞罗德君,一为鄙人竞选事务之经理,一为鄙人国事韬略之智囊。余尝自喟叹,左右谋士,余所仰赖者,皆亘古未见之贤才。普阿二君,则更此中之翘楚。区区不才,有何德能,可得膀臂若此?当此功成之际,感荷之心,亦自拳拳。

But above all, I will never forget who this victory truly belongs to. It belongs to you. It belongs to you.
至于鄙人铭之肺腑,须臾不敢忘怀者,则诸位也。盖今日鄙人之胜绩,实诸位之胜绩,鄙人之荣光,实诸位之荣光!

I was never the likeliest candidate for this office. We didn’t start with much money or many endorsements. Our campaign was not hatched in the halls of Washington. It began in the backyards of Des Moines and the living rooms of Concord and the front porches of Charleston. It was built by working men and women who dug into what little savings they had to give $5 and $10 and $20 to the cause.
余素朴陋,虽有参选之心,并无必胜之志。谋事之初,银资乏匮,从者寥寥;起事之地,皆蔽寓荒斋,不在高阁;成事之基,无非寻常百姓,涓滴之献。

It grew strength from the young people who rejected the myth of their generation’s apathy who left their homes and their families for jobs that offered little pay and less sleep.
It drew strength from the not-so-young people who braved the bitter cold and scorching heat to knock on doors of perfect strangers, and from the millions of Americans who volunteered and organized and proved that more than two centuries later a government of the people, by the people, and for the people has not perished from the Earth.
今日之胜,有赖一众热血青年,抛其家,别其室,不辞其苦,不计其酬,矻矻于此——“国中青年爱国之心已泯”之谬论,今可休矣!今日之胜,有赖壮志未已之诸前辈,无惧寒暑,行走奔波,劝说民众。今日之胜,乃数百万美利坚民众之胜,察其意,皆属踊跃为国,观其行,处处谨严有序,足堪告慰二百年前开国之先贤——民有、民治、民享之政体,未尝动摇也!

This is your victory.
嗟夫!此实诸位之功也!

And I know you didn’t do this just to win an election. And I know you didn’t do it for me.You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime — two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century.
余知诸君之意非在此一选举,亦非在鄙人一身。盖瞻前路之艰辛,益知此任非同小可也。虽今夕欢贺于此,而明朝酒醒,大患仍自当前,不容有怠——两地烽烟熊熊而起,四海之内纷纷而乱,金融业界惶惶而不得宁。

Even as we stand here tonight, we know there are brave Americans waking up in the deserts of Iraq and the mountains of Afghanistan to risk their lives for us.There are mothers and fathers who will lie awake after the children fall asleep and wonder how they’ll make the mortgage or pay their doctors’ bills or save enough for their child’s college education. There’s new energy to harness, new jobs to be created, new schools to build, and threats to meet, alliances to repair.
是夜,饮宴笙歌之声不绝于耳,而异邦大漠群山中,吾国大好青年,兀自苦戍边塞,惝恍竟夜,性命尚未得安。吾国千万庶民,为人父母者,兀自惴惴难眠,所忧者,乃房宅所贷、病患之费、抚育之资也。至若吾国能源之耗,百业之兴,庠序之教,攻伐之术,怀远之道,亦皆吾等忡忡挂怀者也。

The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year or even in one term. But, America, I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there. I promise you, we as a people will get there.
渺渺乎其远,如不可达,危危乎其高,若不可攀。朝夕岁月,焉得成就?余不揣愚钝,愿以四载韶华,付诸此业,胜算何如虽不可知,然昂扬必胜之奇志,成就伟业之壮怀,平生未之有也。君子一诺,其重何如,此地今夕,愿斗胆发一狂言——吾辈既在,其事必成!

There will be setbacks and false starts. There are many who won’t agree with every decision or policy I make as president. And we know the government can’t solve every problem. But I will always be honest with you about the challenges we face. I will listen to you, especially when we disagree. And, above all, I will ask you to join in the work of remaking this nation, the only way it’s been done in America for 221 years — block by block, brick by brick, calloused hand by calloused hand.
逶迤坎坷,份内之事。异见争端,料必有之。国中之go-vern-ment,谅非无所不能者。余所秉承不移者,唯忠信矣。倘有危难于前,必无欺瞒于世。诸君言论臧否,纵悖逆相左之议,余必当洗耳以聆。于此之外,更当恳请诸君,不吝心血,致力报效,以振吾美利坚重兴之业。余亦别无他想,唯盼吾侪协力,延继吾国既肇二百二十一年之大统,汇涓滴之力,而成万世之业。

What began 21 months ago in the depths of winter cannot end on this autumn night. This victory alone is not the change we seek. It is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It can’t happen without you, without a new spirit of service, a new spirit of sacrifice.
昔年冬日,余有志于斯,投身此业,屈指算来,倏然近二载矣。当此秋夜,追思反省,仍无溃退逃亡之意。选战之胜,无非一役之功,余梦寐所思矢志所求者,非在乎此。溯源究本,此役之胜,不过革世变时一大好良机耳。倘止步于斯,垂手而待,或无诸君倾力相援,则壮志丰功,无非泡影,诸般梦想,终必虚妄。

So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism, of responsibility, where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves but each other. Let us remember that, if this financial crisis taught us anything, it’s that we cannot have a thriving Wall Street while Main Street suffers. In this country, we rise or fall as one nation, as one people.
爱国之心,报国之念,吾人固有之,然逢今日之世,此心此念亦当一变——吾辈各执己业,益当各竭其力,各尽其命,非但为一己之利,而更期普世之荣。今岁,金融业界动荡多舛,细审观之,当可以之为鉴——实业之损,亦是金融之伤。可知,既在邦域之内,吾辈荣辱休戚,皆相与共矣!

Let’s resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long. Let’s remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House, a party founded on the values of self-reliance and individual liberty and national unity.Those are values that we all share.
party争纷纭,阴谋卑鄙,愚鲁无知,皆腐蚀清白、惑乱政局之弊也,其缘由已久,余今愿与诸君协力,共灭除之。昔年曾有此郡先贤,执共和party之帜,而掌总统府之权。自强独立,自由统一等信念,皆斯人之所倡,亦吾辈之所宗。

And while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress. As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, we are not enemies but friends. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection.
今岁选战,吾民主party人幸有一胜,然谦逊和合之心未尝少减。余素信服者,乃山河破碎之际,林肯总统之言——“既是至亲,终不为敌。虽弩张剑拔,而血脉未尝断,情义不少减。”

And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn, I may not have won your vote tonight, but I hear your voices. I need your help. And I will be your president, too.
固然,仍有四方志士,不为鄙人所动,另有高明之选。虽终悭此一票之缘,然诸君高论,余亦声声在耳,字字在心。倘能得诸君之援手,鄙人幸甚。他日待余总而统之,亦必不另眼以待也。

And to all those watching tonight from beyond our shores, from parliaments and palaces, to those who are huddled around radios in the forgotten corners of the world, our stories are singular, but our destiny is shared, and a new dawn of American leadership is at hand.
吾邦民众,散居天下,各安其命,而其志一也。吾邦鼎盛之势,今已乍现锋芒。

To those — to those who would tear the world down: We will defeat you. To those who seek peace and security: We support you. And to all those who have wondered if America’s beacon still burns as bright: Tonight we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity and unyielding hope.
至于心怀叵测,与世人为仇、与天下为敌者,吾邦猛志常在,彼等必取灭亡。心思纯良,久慕大同者,吾辈当倾力以助,鼎力相援。犹疑未定,不知吾自由之邦兴衰如何者,吾辈愿以今日盛况以告之——美利坚之所以谓之“美”者,非刀兵之强,金银之众,实民主、自由、机遇、梦想之美也!

That’s the true genius of America: that America can change. Our union can be perfected. What we’ve already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow.
天自有道,地自有德,恩赋吾邦无上异禀——无他,唯变而已矣。美利坚变革不怠,合众国日趋尽善。当以过往先贤之伟绩,助吾侪今日之雄心,开子孙万世之辉光。

This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that’s on my mind tonight’s about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She’s a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing: Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.
今岁选战,多开亘古之先,屡传千秋佳话。感我至深者,亚特兰大之老妪安"尼克松"库帕也——库氏之一票,于数百万美利坚民众之选票无异,其所以引人称奇者,其人今岁高龄一百有六矣。

She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn’t vote for two reasons — because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin.
当其父辈之时,天道不彰,黑人为奴。库氏其生也不逢时,汽车尚不行于道,飞机未曾起于空,库氏既属黑人,又系女流,票选一事,概无瓜葛。

And tonight, I think about all that she’s seen throughout her century in America — the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can’t, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can.
今日今时,回溯库氏百岁之涯,但见吾邦先贤屡败屡战,且退且进,悲欣交集,甘苦杂陈。幸而正道存焉,壮志存焉,曰:吾辈既在,无所不能。

At a time when women’s voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach for the ballot. Yes we can.
万马齐喑,其事堪哀,吾邦女界怒而起,愤而争,苦战不歇,历数十载。幸哉库氏,以百岁之高龄,终得亲见女流自立于世,重获天赋之权——吾辈既在,无所不能!

When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs, a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can.
当百业萧条,国人绝望哀鸣之际,库氏亲见吾美利坚出旷世之新政,挽狂澜于既倒,扶大厦之将倾,退畏惧之势,扶奋勇之心,终至人各有位,民心乃安——吾辈既在,无所不能!

When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can.
当吾国良港遭袭,天下桀纣当道,暴政肆虐之时,库氏亲见豪杰群起,民主不衰——吾辈既在,无所不能!

She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that “We Shall Overcome.” Yes we can.
蒙哥马利公车之罢辍,伯明翰城黑人之群起,塞尔玛城血雨腥风之事,库氏般般亲历。更曾亲聆亚特兰大传教之士振臂登高之呼——“吾等必胜!”诚哉斯言!吾辈既在,无所不能!

A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination. And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change. Yes we can.
俟科学昌明于世,创想通贯一时,既登广寒之阙,又溃柏林之墙。洋洋乎!有百年如是,乃见今岁选战中,库氏之一票。浩浩兮!一百零六载交锋更迭,方有美利坚今日之变革——吾辈既在,无所不能!

America, we have come so far. We have seen so much. But there is so much more to do. So tonight, let us ask ourselves — if our children should live to see the next century; if my daughters should be so lucky to live as long as Ann Nixon Cooper, what change will they see? What progress will we have made?
转眼兴亡过手,而今迈步从头。追昔抚今,不禁扪心而问——俟再历百年岁月,倘吾等后辈儿孙,亦有得享高寿如库氏者,复可见何等之变数?吾辈今日之功,他年可得而见之乎?

This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment. This is our time, to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth, that, out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope. And where we are met with cynicism and doubts and those who tell us that we can’t, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people: Yes, we can.
所谓天命时运,莫过于此——当为吾邦万民造安身立命之业,为吾辈儿孙启各显雄才之门,为寰宇各国创太平静好之世,为吾等壮志赋千秋不灭之元神。吾邦立国之本,必将光耀于天下。万千同胞,当如一人,一息尚存,梦想不灭。纵有世人旁观在侧,而疑窦生焉,吾辈亦当以千秋不易之训共答之曰——吾辈既在,无所不能!

Thank you. God bless you. And may God bless the United States of America.
拜谢诸君。愿天佑吾民,天佑吾邦。

28 febbraio

something about love(3)

作者:晚上不睡早上不醒(天涯)

 2、耐心的守候
  
  一段感情有不同的开始方式,一见钟情总是少数,更多的不是一个对另一个更有好感,就是一个人先开始爱的期待。总是需要某一方多付出一点力气,去争取,去表现,从而赢得一个人观念的转变,让对方爱上你。
  
  怎样将这种单方面的情感推向两个人的爱情,是一种甜蜜的烦恼。这个过程其实也很美好,不能只奔结果而去,而忽视了过程的重要。
  
  情感实例:我们是高中同学,我一直很喜欢她,最近我把自己多年暗恋她的事情告诉她了,她没有反对,答应等我回到她那个城市工作的时候再决定是否能够接 受我。可是因为自己的心急,提前就跑去看她,和她一起出去玩的时候还不太懂照顾她,而且在临走前问她能否接受我,她让我不要急,我就说了气话,让她很生 气。第二天她说不会再给我机会了,我该如何去挽回她失望的心?
  
  
  你太急于得到肯定了,忘记了这本身不是一件容易的事情,也不是一个人太好下的决定。你可能在心中温习了前百遍这样的过程,认定了这个人是你毕生的追 求,但是对于她来说这是一个很突然的事情,她需要适应和说服自己接受,你太性急,或许会让她觉得你的目的性很强,更增添了一种戒备心理。
  
  你说自己没有处理好相处的过程,其实总是这样,人在动心的时候多半就是这样患得患失,因为看得太重,反而越发的笨手笨脚。年轻没有经验,不知道何去何 从,但那忐忑的感觉也是美好的。因为待阅历的增长,这种感觉自然消失,它是你永远不可能重来的滋味。所以,享受过程最重要,在这样的时候,说一生还为时尚 早,你要学会怎么样去爱,怎样表达爱,这就够了。
  
  脚步放慢些。细细品味的感情才更有滋味,真诚的分享才能彻底走进一个人的心里。情感不是只有剧烈的燃烧才能丈量出深度,尊重、平和、耐心、细致的态度 是为自己加分的最好方式。要以一种比较轻松的态度去交流和分享生活,要如春风化雨,慢慢渗透人心,不要总期待一个明确的承诺,而忽视了用真诚去打动对方, 温暖对方。
  
  只有水到渠成,一切都渐入佳境的时候,爱,就会不期而至。
27 febbraio

some thing about love(2)

作者:晚上不睡早晨不起(天涯)

第一章 对待爱情的基本态度
  
  爱情是一个永恒的话题。爱情也是一个最不可说的话题。
  
  爱是无需证明的,只有体会。能够表露的,是誓言,但是誓言又靠不住;能够检验的,是时间,但时间又姗姗来迟。所以,能够知道和明了的,只有我们的心,需要用心去体会。
  
  人可以没有情书,也可以没有很多花哨的感情的外在形式,但是一定要有尊重、体谅、宽容、理解,并以能够令你接受的方式来把它表现出来。爱能有多玄妙, 多不可思议?不要总想去证明,其实这根本无须检验,只要能让你觉得安宁舒服,有灵魂终于可以停泊,不再寻寻觅觅的感觉就对了。
  
  不要刁难自己,不要怀疑爱情一定是激烈的,是夜夜的辗转和迷失的感觉。平凡的人,平凡的感情,可能开始就是平淡的、为了很多现实的因素走到一起,但是 人的感情是那么奇妙,日日相伴,夜夜共眠,爱情就可能不知不觉地滋生着,成长的,摇曳生姿,以一种最朴素的面貌和最温柔的方式存在于彼此中间。我们在爱 着,不过常常就是不知道而已。
  
  如果我们已经拥有了这样的生活,那么就要感谢我们的伴侣,给了我们最不为人知的最琐碎的爱情。当我们学会用踏实的眼光和平凡的角度去看待爱情,可能有一天我们会发现,爱情,竟然有那样一张朴素的脸。而落到了现实中的一颗温和恬淡的心,才能更容易的经营和收获爱情。

1、要有足够的诚意
  
  在开始一段感情之前,应该明白自己是否真的愿意,并且能够去爱这样一个人。真正的感情必须要有足够的诚意做奠基,才会有成功的可能,也才能体会到爱的幸福。
  
  一个人的人生观和爱情观紧密相连,无法分割。你有什么样的人生观就有什么样的爱情观,习惯控制局面,追求完美,并过于自负的人,对于感情更多的是征服的欲望,对攻不下来的堡垒,格外用心;而一个沉静内向,缺乏自信的人,又可能会在感情中畏首畏尾,掩埋掉真实的心意。
  
  爱情其实需要霸道,要能够以一种非常肯定和明确的态度告诉对方,你很爱,你有信心经营感情,这对于一个被爱的人来说是非常需要得到的抚慰和欢欣。但 是,反之,爱情也很惧怕过度的霸道,如果一个人过于自负,在感情中抱着“只要我要的东西,我从来都没有得不到的”思想,就非常致命。因为有时候,我们会非 常反感对方的自大和稳操胜券的那种胜利感,这种过于张扬的个性,那种霸道的,不容分说的所谓真诚和执著,很容易引起争议,造成对方一种不被尊重和不留余地 的错觉。如果两个人都是这样,那么就会把感情变成一种较量的过程,谁也不肯服输,谁也不看先低下头,就像拔河一样,看谁的力量先衰竭。
    
    所以,对待感情,最好的态度是刚柔并济,强弱兼有。意识上要坚定,给予对方安稳的情感底线;态度上要谦和,希望对方知道自己对爱的重视和珍惜。真 诚是一块敲门砖,放下一些所谓的架子和跋扈的作风,可能会更好一点。尤其是对没有到手的感情,在心理上谦恭一点,谨慎一点,多尊重一些,更显得一个人对这 份感情的重视。


26 febbraio

Something about love

作者:晚上不睡早晨不起(天涯)   

前言
  
  体验爱情就是体验生命,经历爱情就是经历人生
  
  我们粗糙的生命因为有了爱情这首歌而变得温婉缠绵,一个普通平凡的人因为爱情而变得尊贵和醒目。在年轻的或者更年轻的时候,谁都可能为自己喜欢的人心甘情愿地付出过。我们都可能曾经是别人默默盼望过的那个人,被想念着、疼爱着、承担着;我们都可能曾经是别人温暖的梦想,从少年到白头。
  
  我们的一生,总要爱上一些什么人,对爱的向往和渴求是每一个生命都曾经燃烧的信念。谁都不愿忍受孤单和寂寞,都希望在人世间找寻到另一个能够承担自己所有幸福和悲哀的肩膀。苦苦寻觅的过程中,有时候竟然是花费了一生的时光。然而什么又是真正的爱呢,不同的人有不同的解释,不同的阶段有不同的视角。爱上一个也许很容易,但是能否将这种感情化作可以为生命消耗和使用的能量,能否获得可供一生收藏的会议,就是另一种意义上的事情。不见得爱上一个人,就能留这个人在生命中,也不见得为爱用尽全力,就能得到希望的结果。
  
  爱情如果只求一个结果,那未免太辜负了爱情的原始美丽。
  
  所以,我们爱的,无非就是那过程中的那些欢乐与哀愁,那些除了彼此,无人能够替代的回忆。至于结果,或许真的并不是最重要的事情,至少,不会是唯一重要的事情。
  
  所以,爱情是一种感觉,恋爱是一个过程,也是一种技术和手段,在这个过程中要有能够将自己的感情固化为一种简单的幸福的能力,才能是爱的成功。这其中,重要的永远不是深度,而是能力。

21 febbraio

(转)只有十句话,我却看了十分钟


第一句
  
如果我们之间有1000步的距离

如果我爱你
  
你只要跨出第1步
  
我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步
  
第二句 

通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人
  
才是真正爱你的人
  
第三句
  
付出真心,才会得到真心
  
却也可能伤得彻底
  
保持距离,就能保护自己
  
却也注定永远寂寞
  
第四句  

有时候,不是对方不在乎你
  
而是你把对方看得太重
  
第五句
  
朋友就是把你看透了,还能喜欢你的人
  
第六句
  
就算是believe,中间也藏了一个lie
  
第七句
  
真正的好朋友
  
并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题
  
而是在一起,就算不说话
  
也不会感到尴尬
  
第八句
  
没有一百分的另一半
  
只有五十分的两个人
  
第九句
  
为你的难过而快乐的,不是善人
  
为你的快乐而快乐的,是朋友
  
为你的难过而难过的
  
就是那些,该放进心里的人
  
第十句
  
冷漠,有时候并不是无情
  
只是一种避免被伤害的工具

 
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